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Manual Sex Manual
Chapter 3
Another little technique some women go absolutely wild for, is
tapping your thumb gently against her clitoris while you push your
fingers in and out of her. If this is done with both hands, it generates
very powerful erotic sensations, and if she is very close to the
edge, can elicit a thundering orgasm that will leave you both profoundly
moved.
I can't over-stress the importance of the communication and trust
in advancing the cause of each other's sexual pleasure. If you notice
her enjoying something, you might whisper into her ear and ask her
if that feels good. She may find it sexy. Not all women are into
talking dirty when they are engaged in sex, but a simple heartfelt
enquiry as to her own pleasure usually goes over well with almost
anyone. You'll get a feel for it by her response. She may even become
quite vocal about what she wants you to do for her.
If manual stimulation is continued to the point of orgasm, it can
produce quite powerful results. Immediately following her orgasm,
you should probably slow down your hand movements, particularly
on her clitoris, which can suddenly become very sensitive immediately
following climax. Many women prefer a constant gentle overall pressure
against the entire vulva following orgasm, but some are capable
of continuing on to another, or even several more orgasms. If your
girlfriend is multi-orgasmic, you may be the one that needs the
break here. Giving a woman good manual sex can tax a variety of
small muscles not normally used, and can be quite tiring. Take a
rest, or change hands if you need to. It shouldn't hurt you to make
her feel good.
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