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Manual Sex Manual
Chapter 2
Start with some gentle circular rubbing around the mons pubis.
Be careful not to apply too much pressure, and keep the circles
small enough so as not to pull painfully on her pubic hair. After
a while you may want to give this a break and try a little clitoral
rolling maneuver. Gently taking her clitoris between your thumb
and forefinger, or between any two fingers, depending on your vantage
point at the moment, and begin to gently roll it between the fingers,
like you might play with her earlobe. Be very careful here as her
clitoris is very sensitive and some women even experience pain via
direct stimulation of this organ. Vary the pressure and speed paying
attention to her reactions. She'll show you what feels goods to
her. By the way, your other hand is hopefully engaged in some meaningful
activity at this point as well. You might actually play with
her earlobe, or her breasts, but do something with it so that no
one feels left out. Its always nice to kiss her very softly, and
seductively while you do this, hinting to her now aroused imagination
what might lay ahead for her if she chooses. Again, letting things
evolve slowly will build her passion and engage her imagination
- the ultimate erogenous zone.
After she lets you know that she's ready, either verbally otherwise,
you can gently push your finger against the opening of her vagina.
If you've been patient and waited for her arousal level to build
to a good momentum, she should have produced some internal lubrication.
Even if she is very wet inside though, her labia might still be
dry and resist your attempts to gain entry to her sacred place.
A good quality water-based lubricant will ease the way and make
the sensation of your fingers on and inside her even more pleasurable
for both of you. Good bedside manner dictates that you warm the
lube up in your hand for a few moments first though. If you don't
have any lube around, wet your fingers with your own saliva. If
you look longingly into her eyes as you bring your fingers to your
mouth, as though savouring a delicious treat, she may become extra
turned on with anticipation.
Avoid just thrusting your fingers inside her at this point. Play
at the entrance to her vagina a bit and tease her for a while. She
may reach up and swallow your fingers inside of her if she really
wants them there. After she's well lubricated and you have a finger
or two inside of her, try making some firm slow circles around the
interior of her vaginal walls. Again, watch for her reactions, especially
those little moans of pleasure, and the arching of her pelvis against
your hand.
If she is on her back, try inserting your index and second finger
inside her vagina, about two inches, with your palm facing upward,
and making a little 'come hither' motion by curling your fingers
up toward her belly. This is where her 'G' spot is located, and
she may be sensitive to direct stimulation in this way. Not all
women experience the same pleasure from G spot stimulation though,
so again watch for her signals. Ensure your fingernails are short!
While you have your fingers inside her in this fashion, you should
be able to make very pleasurable little circles on her clitoris
with your thumb. The different shape and size of your thumb will
create an entirely different sensation for her. Give her clitoris
the level of attention she seems to want, but every once in a while,
slip your fingers almost all the way out of her, but maintaining
contact against her entire vulva with the curve of your hand between
your thumb and index finger as you do so, massaging her vulva with
a firm gentle pressure.
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