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Erectile Dysfunction
Chapter 2

To give you an idea of the high degree of probability that you may be a candidate for Viagra in Pfizer's eyes, you need only take their online test. It merely contains 5 questions -

Over the past 6 months:

  1. How would you rate your confidence in your ability to get and keep an erection?

  2. When you had erections with sexual stimulation, how often were your erections hard enough for penetration (entering your partner)?

  3. During sexual intercourse, how often were you able to maintain your erection after you had penetrated (entered) your partner?

  4. During sexual intercourse, how difficult was it to maintain your erection to completion of intercourse?

  5. When you attempted sexual intercourse, how often was it satisfactory for you?

I responded that I had a high level of confidence to the first question, was almost always able to penetrate my partner (the highest option available), that most of the time (much more than half) I was able to maintain my erection after penetration, and that it was only slightly difficult to do so (one below the highest level of not difficult), and that my intercourse was satisfactory to me most of the time (again, much more than half).

The results came back that I might have mild Erectile Difficulties.

The fact is that this questionnaire is far to short and lacks the comprehensiveness required to adequately diagnose Erectile Dysfunction... though perhaps it is sufficient to determine "erectile difficulties" - whatever that is. As a result, one can only come to the conclusion that it is more of a sales aid than a diagnostic tool. For instance there is no mention of stress levels a concerned individual might have been experiencing of late, no questions regarding smoking habits or recent changes in diet or exercise or questions on whether you ever attain an incidental erection when you are not actively attempting intercourse. - not even such a basic concern as "Do you still find your partner attractive?"

There are certainly a considerable variety of reasons an individual might find themselves temporarily not "up to the challenge" as it were, when concerning matters of potency. The truth of the matter is that most men experience episodic inability to attain an erection but it is a temporary issue and usually resolves itself requiring no chemical intervention.

The following are some of the more common causes of this embarrassing but not overly serious (assuming that it's origins are not physiological) situation that one might find himself in:

1. New sex partner. Performance anxiety (often associated with poor body image) rears its ugly head most often when we are with a new partner. While this is often mitigated by the fact that a new partner is a very exciting proposition, sometimes sheer nervousness will cause an inability to perform sexually. The author found himself in this awkward position on his first opportunity to lose his virginity! Talk about a disappointment! Fortunately, subsequent attempts proved more successful.

2. Stress. In today's hectic world, we often lack the time to adequately deal with the many curves life throws us - sometimes in rapid succession. The body however, will process your stress regardless of whether you are conscious of it or not, often manifesting this fact in ways we would least expect it to. Changes in your job, a death in the family, divorce, or the prospect of one, financial worries, illness in a loved one etc. are all potential causes of temporary difficulties in attaining and maintaining an erection.

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