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How to Vary the Missionary
Chapter 3
Finally, variety may be achieved by a change of ambiance. A couple
may decide to leave the lights on if they commonly have them turned
off. Romance may be added by having candles and music in the room.
A simple change of venue for example, making love on the floor or
couch in the living room may provide increased interest and arousal.
For this reason, many couples like to rent a hotel room for a night
or go on a weekend getaway. Making love outdoors - at a campsite
or in a secluded park can also be very invigorating. The choices
are only as limited as your imagination.
Next time you have a sexual encounter and find yourself in the
missionary position, it doesn't have to be the same old thing. There
are innumerable ways to alter it and liven things up without doing
anything radical. Depending on your body type and agility, by simply
employing different leg, arm or body variations you may find a method
that is more comfortable for you or easier to sustain. Enhanced
pleasure for women may be found by using a vibrator or employing
manual stimulation, especially those who have difficulty reaching
orgasm by intercourse alone. The single most positive aspect of
the missionary is that these different positions can be achieved
easily, without interrupting the flow movement which will often
psychologically alter the mood and may also send arousal levels
plummeting, making it necessary to start at the beginning again,
particularly for the woman. By trying out these simple methods,
you will probably come up with many more of your own.
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