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How to Vary the Missionary
Chapter 2
Fortunately, there many variations to this position which may enhance
pleasure for both men and women and also add some divergence to
this most common form of lovemaking. First, there are several different
leg positions a couple may employ. In the most common form of the
missionary, the woman's legs are parted with the man's legs in between.
By locking feet, it is easier to stay in sync with your partners
movements and it is easier for the man to stay balanced. Alternatively,
the man can put his legs outside of the woman's... after insertion
of the penis, the woman can close hers, keeping the man's legs on
the outside. While this variation typically enhances clitoral stimulation,
the downside is that it decreases penetration. Men with shorter
penises may have some difficulty remaining inside their partner,
however this is usually circumvented with a little care and attention
to the angles involved. Another variation involves both the man
and woman having their legs parted with the man's legs on top of
the woman's. However, this position may prove a little awkward depending
on respective leg size and weight. Other options are for the woman
to have her legs wrapped around the man's hips or even over his
shoulders. This is generally most enjoyable for the man because
the penis can penetrate quite deeply, but many women find that there
is not enough clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. A different
way to achieve deep penetration is for the woman to lie on her back
with a pillow under her midsection with her partner kneeling in
front of her, holding on to her ankles, with her legs spread widely
apart. This allows the woman to move in a much freer manner and
to stimulate her clitoris if necessary. It is very enjoyable for
the man as well although it is difficult to sustain this position
for any length of time because it requires upper body strength.
The next set of variations involve different body and arm positions
that will vary the experience. Commonly, the man is lying directly
on the woman, propped up on his elbows. Depending on the body size
and weight of both partners, this may or may not be comfortable
as the woman may be pinned down and unable to move. If the man is
not significantly heavier than the woman, she may choose to wrap
her arms around him while he either holds on to her shoulders or
head. He may also put his arms under the woman and hold on to her
bottom. This will provide maximum penetration and moderate stimulation
for the woman. If the man is significantly heavier, or if the woman
is pregnant, it is a good idea for the man to prop himself up on
his elbows or he could also draw his knees right up and lean on
his arms, almost in a sitting position. This is one of the best
positions for women that need additional clitoral stimulation. Either
partner may use their hand, fingers or alternate device to give
the additionally needed stimulation. Many people find the use of
a vibrator extremely pleasurable in this variant however, many vibrators
are too bulky and awkward. The Fukuoku seems to be the best one
that we've found to address this difficulty. Because it's so small,
it is unobtrusive to use. Another common way for a woman to achieve
enhanced pleasure of the missionary position is to elevate her hips
with a pillow or some similar prop. One thing to remember however
is that many men may have a hard time keeping their balance if they
are in a more upright position. A solution to that potential difficulty
would be for him to grip the headboard of the bed or perhaps hang
on to his lovers ankles.
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