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More Tantric Sex - Practical Application

Many people find the association with the spiritual aspect of tantric sex a turn off. That is really too bad though, as in reality, it needn't prevent anyone from learning some of the very good and basic biological aspects of tantric sex which might otherwise serve to enlighten and delight anyone who cares to investigate them with an open mind. There are a good many things we can learn from tantric sex that might be very useful to examine more closely, increasing both knowledge and pleasure.

Sting, the former lead singer of the Police, has been an advocate of tantric sex for many, many years, and maintains that 'regular' sex doesn't even interest him now. For a guy with as much access to regular sex as he has had, you may want to make a note of this.

The most obvious way to approach investigations into tantric sexual teachings, is to ignore any references to God, should we have a problem with these - or anything we don't truly believe in ourselves, and substitute love, or something else we do believe in. This is not meant to disparage the believers in tantric ideology, but rather to make the very good revelations they contain available to those outside of the faith. Good sex and good communication are both things I heartily endorse.

Tantric techniques that enable men to achieve orgasm without ejaculation for instance, are possible to put into practice, to a lesser degree perhaps, in aide of controlling premature ejaculation, or simply prolonging pleasure. The principle of this technique involves learning to recognize your own body's orgasmic, and pre-orgasmic responses. While it may be possible to enlist the support of your lover in some cases, the technique is a bit technical, and so you might want to run through it a few times on your own first, taking matters into your own hands, so to speak.

While masturbating, pay particular attention to your level of arousal. For the purposes of this experiment, I suggest refraining from the use of pornography so as to more fully maintain your attention and awareness. Try to use your imagination only. Remember, the imagination is the most powerful erogenous zone, and like anything else, needs some exercise to stay in peak condition.

When you feel like you are getting close to climaxing, but before you pass the point of no return, make a mental note of what you feel so that you can recognize the pre-orgasmic sensation. Back off a bit if you can and try to stay at this point for a while. Don't worry if you slide over the edge the first time. It is after all, the primary biological purpose that nature has always intended. But when you feel your orgasm beginning, pay attention to the contractions. An orgasm consists of a series of involuntary muscular contractions numbering somewhere in the vicinity of 8 to 25 on average. This is true for women and men as well. Count yours and gradually get to know your normal number of orgasmic contractions.

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