Erogenous Zones
Erogenous zones are areas of the human body that respond to stimulation
in the form of sexual arousal. Everyone's erogenous zones are different
in the sense that what may feel good to one person, may not to someone
else. That said, think of the content of this article as being a
rough guide and not etched in stone.
Men and women have many similar, but some different erogenous zones.
This article will concentrate on the female ones. The largest organ
in the body is the skin and additionally our most important as pertains
to sex. As we all know, our skin is very sensitive having many nerve
endings, responding well to rubbing, stroking and touching. Keep
in mind that touching your lover will produce different results
than touching a friend or family member. So, the first thing to
note here is that who you are touching is the first variable in
this equation. While we have many daily interactions in which we
might touch someone else, the majority of it is non-sexual.
The mouth and lips are the most commonly known and utilized areas
of arousal. There is a reason why many romantic interludes start
with a kiss; the lips are one of the most sensitive parts of the
body. They are soft, warm and can be very expressive. Kissing in
a passionate way is of course one of the most effective methods
to sexually arouse someone. While on the topic of kissing, the neck
is another zone that generally responds very well to stimulation.
Some people are purported to even reach orgasm simply by intense
kissing on the lips and neck - now guys this is extremely rare,
so don't be disappointed if your girl doesn't climax when you kiss
her!
The most obvious region for sexual stimulation is the genital area.
The trick here boys is to figure out exactly which way your particular
lady likes to be touched, rubbed, licked or kissed. Fast, slow,
soft, hard, a little to the left etc. We should all strive towards
employing good communication skills, especially with our lover.
If you are lucky, your partner will simply tell you, if not, you
are going to have to use your physic powers to try to determine
whether she likes what you are doing or not. You may find that many
women are embarrassed to some degree with directly informing you
that she finds you exciting and that she wants to make passionate
love to you. It would be nice if things were that crystal clear,
but the reality of life is that they aren't. Your partner may be
relaying some non-verbal signals to you that may help you to figure
out if you are arousing her. If you pay attention carefully, you
may learn to distinguish between a good, "please do more of
that", sound or expression, and a negative, "this isn't
working" one.
Some visible signs to watch for signaling that your lover is getting
turned on are:
1- Dilation of the pupils
2- Erect nipples
3- Swelling of the breasts
4- Swelling of the clitoris
5- Swelling of the labia minora (inner vaginal lips)
6- Dramatic change in color of the labia - turns bright red
7- Wetness in the vagina
8- Heavier, more intense breathing
9- Sex flush appears on stomach and chest (it looks rather like
a rash but only appears on about 1/3 of people)
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