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The Art of Seduction

You have a hot date all set up for tonight. You are passionately in lust and it is your intention to completely seduce her. So how do you set about accomplishing this mission?

Well guys, it's not as entirely complicated as it might seem. First off, and this is very important, carefully choose what you wear to your date. Do not just grab a shirt off the floor, or the pair of pants closest to your closet entrance. If you do not match, or wear something that is not flattering, you're out of the ball game before you've even started. No woman will let herself be seduced by someone she believes is incompetent. If you don't think that she'll notice that you're wearing two different colored socks, forget about it - she'll notice. Take care to wear clean, well fitting clothes that are somewhat fashionable and appropriate to where you're going.

Okay, you're ready to go. As you pick her up the single most important factor in seduction comes into play from the minute you say hello. YOU MUST EXUDE SELF-CONFIDENCE. If you can't manage anything else, this is the big one to remember. You must look like you know what you're doing even if your knees are knocking. Don't hum and haw over where to park, or what to order at a restaurant. Be decisive. No woman wants to be out on a date with someone that reminds her of her 10-year-old nephew. It helps considerably if you go to a place that you are somewhat familiar with. Self -confidence is not the same as arrogance. Make certain that you are coming off as a self assured, capable kind off guy, not a pompous jerk. One way of conveying self-confidence is by making eye contact. Look at her straight in the eyes and hold her gaze for a while.

If you're comfortable and self-confident, you will no longer find the need to dominate the conversation. By all means, it is important to keep up your end, but don't try to top all of her stories or go on and on about some great thing that you did at work and how everyone marveled at your brilliance. Women like men that listen to them. Hello, for those of you not listening, women like men that listen to them. Good, I'm glad that you heard me this time. Pay attention when she's telling you something and respond appropriately. If you ask questions that pertain to what she's talking about it's a clear demonstration of genuine interest in her. Here's a very important point to remember: if you are at a restaurant or bar with a T.V. on, (and you're not there specifically to watch a game or movie), do not let your eyes become magnetically fixated on the screen. Women will wonder why you even bothered to leave your house if you stare at the TV as this also means that you are not listening to them… have you forgotten already?

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