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Does Penis Size Matter?
Chapter 2
The media is also a culprit in putting pressure on men to measure-up
to size large. For instance, the last time you watched an adult
film, was the male star of the film a small 4 inches, or a standard
6? Well, how about a whopping 10 inches! That's usually about the
norm in the trade as they generally employ abnormally large men
in their movies. Why do you think you always see the same guys staring
in them? It's certainly not because of lack of interested contenders!
The simple fact is that most men just don't measure up to these
mutants. The industry seems to have drilled it into our collective
heads; the biggest penis gets the girl. Or is it the girl gets the
biggest penis? Either way, there is no mistaking the point.
This leads to an interesting fact; men with larger penises sleep
with more women than their average or smaller sized peers. Many
studies have reached similar conclusions, but why? A woman doesn't
usually know her date's penis size before she decides whether or
not she has sex with him. It is commonly believed that the answer
has more to do with the psychological side of the story. Better-endowed
men are often more self-confident, especially when it comes to meeting
and getting to know women. On the contrary, men with smaller penises
sometimes have a hard time dating, as they feel self-conscious about
the size of their penis.
There are many businesses that exist as a result of men's insecurity
in this area. Does everyone remember the Swedish penis enlarger
that Austin Powers tried to pretend wasn't his in the movie? There
are a considerable number of products which address the same concern
out there, and there's a large market full of guys that buy them.
It is important to note at this point that many of these products
are worthless and the claims their manufacturers make groundless.
To answer the question, does penis size matter to women? The honest
answer is yes. Although it is true that there are very few nerve
endings inside a woman's vagina, and that a woman may be satisfied
with varying sizes of penis, the fact remains that if a penis is
too small, she may not find it enjoyable. It is important to note
here that there are certain sexual positions, such as the missionary
position, that work better for men with smaller penises. Men that
aren't as well endowed simply need to pay more attention to technique,
and hey, there's always oral sex. Far more frequently however, a
very large penis is more problematic as intercourse can prove painful.
If, for instance, a penis is too long for a particular woman, it
may impact on her cervix which can be very painful indeed over time.
The message here guys is that you have to learn to make the most
of the equipment you have been given. It is the psychological aspect
which is even more important to women though; they have a strong
visual preference to men with larger penises. It is not just men
that are culturally influenced to think that a larger penis is more
manly and therefore more desirable. Women instinctively tend to
desire men that are as masculine as possible, and as evolution explains,
natural selection is the underlying basis for all aspects of human
sexuality. As for the media, women are exposed to the very same
pornography, and are conditioned to believe that it is better for
a man to be well-endowed.
So, does penis size matter? You bet it does, to both men and to
women. The physical reasons are minor, but the most important reasons
are psychological. Does it mean that if your penis is smaller than
average size, you will have difficulties with sex? There is no reason
in the world why it should negatively affect your sex life, unless
you allow it to. Accept yourself for what you are and be self-confident.
After all, both Casanova and Don Juan were purported to be "average"
men.
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